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Again, use your convo as a way to get to know each other, but remember, don’t talk about yourself in excess! We know dates can be uncomfortable at first, or for some, uncomfortable the whole time, but keep in mind, this feeling is temporary.
You don’t need to put pressure on yourself and the person you are having a date with.
Create your own traditions that you’ll look forward if you find yourselves still together this time next year.
Well, I have compiled a list of Do’s and Don’ts just for you because I’ve been seeing some my beautiful ladies committing some dating crimes.
A date is for two people to get to know each other and it won’t happen if you start vomiting out the mouth making everything relate back to you. This ensures any and all possibility of you making a hot-mess of yourself, and or the possibility of you getting sick in front of your date. First dates are naturally out of most people’s comfort zones.
I know that first dates can be nerve wrecking, and sometimes the way we calm our nerves is filling up the dead air space, but remember to breathe, and truly go in with the intention of getting to know this person. You probably don’t want to show your “cray” side just yet. No matter how much you want to choose the restaurant you “want” to go to, or tell your guy what he should eat because you know all the “good stuff” DON’T.
Behaviors can either reflect you positively or negatively, and what I am seeing is that we are getting attached to our negative behaviors and calling them “who we are.” Overwhelming a person with “who you are” on a first date, stops you from getting to know them, which defeats the purpose doesn’t it?
“Some people want to spend more time with families and friends and aren’t ready to introduce you into the mix,” says marriage and family therapist Melissa Divaris Thompson. Give yourself time and space to connect with your own family and friends.” “If you have an office holiday work party and can invite a date, go for it it! “Especially if you feel confident they can easily take care of themselves in a crowd and you don’t need to constantly take care of them.” Holiday parties don’t need to be a huge deal, and are generally the more the merrier. People are out at night more than ever this time of year… Even if it means skipping a spin class or having sore feet after a long day, get out of your apartment, put on something sexy, and go to that party! Unless you get a sense that this relationship is really heading in a good direction, giving your S. something major—like a watch or a pricey designer clothing item—could give them the wrong idea or even scare them away, says Thompson.
Professional matchmakers Jaime Bernstein and Callie Harris say red is one of the best colors to wear in general to catch someone’s eye, but especially during the holidays.
“It draws attention, it’s classic, it gives you confidence, and it’s a color people are drawn to.
This will take the pressure off, both, you and him. The way you can get an organic feel of this is by letting it flow.
Just don’t, you barely found out this mans name, you don’t need to know right off the bat if he will make a good husband or father.