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All along it is easy to be manipulated as we respond from our hearts.The deception of the ego is that the narcissist can hide behind misfortune and victimization in order to shame you into feeling and believing that they suffer more than you do. They will make you feel that you have not done enough to help them.The ego wants attention, control, gain, and power over others by positioning itself as a “poor and helpless” victim.
You can see an extreme narcissist who hogs the limelight and credit from achievements and self-praise also getting similar recognition from milking an injury or a seeming misfortune that has occurred to them.Victimized extreme narcissists are on the constant prowl looking for any gullible soul that will believe their version of calamity whether it is real, exaggerated, or fictitious.What they claim that makes their calamity different is that it is worse for them. It is just as selfish and manipulating as that of a pompous egotist.Have you ever noticed that when you have gotten very sick or hospitalized the person you thought was your friend never asked or called?When the same situation had previously happened to them, you were there for them.